During the New Year greetings, Natalia shared a heartfelt message in a PeaceBuilders group: “Best wishes from Moscow.”
Minutes later, Maria responded with raw emotion: “Do you seriously think it’s appropriate to send congratulations from Moscow this year? My family has been hiding underground for nine hours. My mother just called to say they survived a massive missile bombardment. Today, she lost a close friend and colleague, and another friend has been missing for a week after telling his family, including his two young children, that he was injured. This is what New Year’s Eve looks like from Moscow.”
Natalia quickly apologized, saying: “I’m deeply sorry that you and your loved ones are enduring such circumstances. I, too, have personal losses among friends and colleagues, and, tragically, those losses continue to grow each day…”
In the aftermath, Ahmad and others sought to calm the tension and provide perspective. Yet, for some, like Kate and Lisa, the exchange resonated deeply and felt profoundly personal.
I empathize with Maria’s profound sense of injustice, anger, and grief, which reflect the enormity of the situation she faces. At the same time, I value Natalia’s heartfelt apology and her sincere invitation to build bridges, even in such polarized times.
I want to honor Kate and Lisa’s steadfast commitment to truth, courage, and integrity, which continues to inspire us all.
I deeply appreciate the outpouring of love and compassion reflected in the collective responses—through words, likes, and shared hearts. These small but meaningful gestures remind us of our shared humanity.
Ahmad’s steady dedication to guiding us toward intentional and purposeful action in challenging moments is truly admirable.
I want to thank all for creating a space that fosters discomfort, deep reflection, and intentional decision-making. Being part of this group is a privilege—a space where I am continually challenged to grow in awareness and transform it into conscious action.
A wise older brother by the name of Don Miguel Ruiz shared four agreements for living in peace. I am practicing them since many years and our respective exchanges show how powerful they are:
- Be Impeccable with Your Word: Speak with integrity, saying only what you mean, and avoid using words to speak ill of yourself or others.
- Don't Take Anything Personally: Understand that others' actions and words are a reflection of their own reality; by not taking things personally, you can avoid unnecessary suffering.
- Don't Make Assumptions: Have the courage to ask questions and express what you truly desire; clear communication helps prevent misunderstandings and drama.
- Always Do Your Best: Recognize that your best effort varies from moment to moment; by consistently doing your best, you can avoid self-judgment and regret